treated by the world gentleness.

Recently, the event happened about many women are violated. Many guys think this is trivial. But in my opinion, it can not be taken lightly.
In this era promoted gender equality, I think woman needs to be protected in a way. Like Vivian Ma said, as a woman, we should try our best to do ourselves, rather than fight with the evil forces. So many ancient customs do not accept today like marriage. The marriage is a sacred and blessed thing. However, a growing number of marriage ceremony in the grounds of local customs for bridesmaids limb insult.
Please note that all brides that because bridesmaids think you are her friend, so be willing to accompany you through the most important stages of life. You need to protect her, not looking at her being bullied.
 According to the survey every year in our country, lost in the population, 57% were female, 25.4% of children. The women lost, a portion was sold into the mountains, unable to rescue. Part of people commit suicide after rape. The rest was cutting off an organ, tissue or enter prostitution. Recently, at HeYi hotel the girl occurred on the attack. A girl living in a hotel when he was forced to drag a strange man. And the people around, have adopted an indifferent attitude to ignore. The answer makes more people feel chilling.
Gender equality has not meant that the woman suffered injuries can easily be forgiven.
 In fact, in society, there are many places we do not know the cruel truth.
What we need is to get everyone's help when we encounter difficulties, rather than after the fact mocking women themselves. Make a society truly chilling is not the system itself, but the person's attitude.
 We do not need after the accident every time, to learn self-defense techniques.

How to choose a job

Several months later,I have to make an important choice that is finding a job.But I haven't decided which kind of job I should adopt yet.Nowadays,the competition is more and more fierce,even we do not have right to choose but to be chosen by the employers.Especially,some companies directly declare that they do not need female interviewees,so in such circumstance,female job hunters do not have a chance to get that job at all.Now,I am a little overwhelmed.Maybe,I have three choices,one is to stay in state-owned company,and another one is to find a job in foreign company,the last one is to get a position in private enterprise.For the first option,others say the job is steady with good priviledge.I think this one is good,but if I choose to stay in state-owned company,I don't know which city I should select.At the moment,I am in Beijing,I am more likely to have a job here, but the house price is too high here,I do not think I and my boy friend could have the ability to afford a house here.While,I can also choose to go back our hometown,if so,we do not need to worry about the house,because my boy friend's parents have already bought a new house,but,we couldn't earn much money.I am a person who is reluctant to live a common life,and I do not want to engage myself mostly in marriage,I have my own dream to realize.So I like Beijing much better than my hometown,here I could have more chances to broaden my eyesight and learn more things.The only problem is the house problem.The other two choices may offer more decent salaries,especially to work in a foreign company,but more time and energy is required,besides,the working place is often changing,and there is more probability to be fired if I do not perform well or the company experiences hard times.Admittedly,human beings would always want to claim more things when they've already had something and one's desire is endless.Unexceptedly,I am also a person of that group.So now I am faced up with the three choices,the first one is steady,good salary,but astonishing house prices;the second one is more decent salary,but not steady with workplaces changing;the third one is also decent salary,but not steady and tiresome.For myself,I would more likely to choose one from the former two choices.So which one is much better,I haven't decided yet.Well，now the top priority for me is still to work harder,and make myself more qualified in order to positively choose a job but not passively to be chosen by those employers.