How to choose a job

Several months later,I have to make an important choice that is finding a job.But I haven't decided which kind of job I should adopt yet.Nowadays,the competition is more and more fierce,even we do not have right to choose but to be chosen by the employers.Especially,some companies directly declare that they do not need female interviewees,so in such circumstance,female job hunters do not have a chance to get that job at all.Now,I am a little overwhelmed.Maybe,I have three choices,one is to stay in state-owned company,and another one is to find a job in foreign company,the last one is to get a position in private enterprise.For the first option,others say the job is steady with good priviledge.I think this one is good,but if I choose to stay in state-owned company,I don't know which city I should select.At the moment,I am in Beijing,I am more likely to have a job here, but the house price is too high here,I do not think I and my boy friend could have the ability to afford a house here.While,I can also choose to go back our hometown,if so,we do not need to worry about the house,because my boy friend's parents have already bought a new house,but,we couldn't earn much money.I am a person who is reluctant to live a common life,and I do not want to engage myself mostly in marriage,I have my own dream to realize.So I like Beijing much better than my hometown,here I could have more chances to broaden my eyesight and learn more things.The only problem is the house problem.The other two choices may offer more decent salaries,especially to work in a foreign company,but more time and energy is required,besides,the working place is often changing,and there is more probability to be fired if I do not perform well or the company experiences hard times.Admittedly,human beings would always want to claim more things when they've already had something and one's desire is endless.Unexceptedly,I am also a person of that group.So now I am faced up with the three choices,the first one is steady,good salary,but astonishing house prices;the second one is more decent salary,but not steady with workplaces changing;the third one is also decent salary,but not steady and tiresome.For myself,I would more likely to choose one from the former two choices.So which one is much better,I haven't decided yet.Well，now the top priority for me is still to work harder,and make myself more qualified in order to positively choose a job but not passively to be chosen by those employers.