Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Why are Chinese divorces getting more and more expensive?

According to statistics from the ministry of civil affairs, since 2003, the number of divorces in China has increased for 14 consecutive years. In 2003, the number of divorces was 1331,000, and by 2016, it has grown to 4.850,000. Not only are the Numbers increasing, the growth rate is staggering, but the post-80s generation, according to the relevant statistics, Cheap jerseys chinahave become the main demographic of the current divorce.
From the past talk of divorce and divorce, to the end of the 70s, the divorce is not a big deal, and the Chinese marriage outlook is changing. After 1970, the post-80s generation became divorced. A small sample survey conducted by sun yat-sen university in Shanghai and guangzhou showed that the number of married people in the post-70s and post-80s generation reached or nearly halved.
Why is the divorce rate high after 70? Media analysis suggests that the biggest killer of the post-1970s divorce is economic. It is often said that there is no "rich dad" in the 70s, but a lot of people start from scratch and win a lot of wealth. Because of this, let people have more expectation for "pillow people" : you are also engaged in IT, why can't you learn ma huateng? Why did you buy a luxury BMW, but I can only rent a bus with you? This kind of expectation and disappointment is often the result of a breakup. In addition to economic reasons, the number of people who have divorced after 70 are in turn: second, extramarital affair; Third, long years of separation; Fourth, women are better than men; Fifth, family conflict; Sixth, the sex life is not harmonious.
It is worth noting that the phenomenon of female stronger than male in the 70 s and 80 s are common in the marriage, the subversion of "male" family roles has, in time, economic relations, let men and women are more likely to cause confusion. On the one hand, the husband to inherit the traditional idea that it should be his wife to do chores, on the other hand, her husband in objectively but not "pillar" of the home, women will inevitably produce "with what my family want me to do the housework" complaints.
The post-80s divorce rate is higher than the post-80s generation. Why is the post-80s divorce rate so high? Many sociologists believe that the main reason for the biggest "killer" of divorce in the post-80s generation is parents. After 80 is mostly only children, for parents to rely on, which directly caused their marriage: one is because from the parents can get a lot of affection, feelings for family less attachment after 80, even if the divorce or too "injury". The second is "spoiled" by the parents, after 80 are used to the dedication of love, parents since the childhood in his marriage, also often think that "the other side to me as the center, do dedication" for me, all want to get to dedication, lead to family conflicts to upgrade, and even ended in divorce.
According to the statistics, there are quite a few family couples who have been separated by their mother's interference. Some mother-in-laws have high expectations for their daughter's marriage, and she has placed a high threshold on her daughter's marriage. Some suspicion not brilliant career, some improper suspicion family door door is wrong, have a plenty of suspicion son-in-law cannot meet the material needs daughter or your own, therefore, would be against love, after marriage still opposed, if some son-in-law felt mother-in-law severely hurt their self-esteem, or tired of mother-in-law cynicism and supercilious look together, will naturally cause divorce.
When it comes to mother-in-law, Cheap nfl jerseys you have to talk about house prices. Originally, the wedding and the house were a pair of "love and love", with "a long life together". Helplessly, the price of the price of the horizontal bar, with the reason and the excuse that "do not have", hard is to break up the two, even make a lot of family "wife and daughter scatter". House prices determine the divorce rate, although there is no direct or necessary link between the two. But we have to admit that we are in a time of housing price abduction, where the arms of the giant octopus are everywhere. It has already penetrated into every corner of the national economy, and the housing price, as a barometer of national economy, determines the happiness of most Chinese people.

To be expectant pregnant woman and leadership which should go first?

On June 23, shanxi pinglu a net "millet" pregnant women in WeChat circle of friends, in a news release said that morning 9:30 to go to the hospital to give, Wholesale jerseys nflin pinglu county m Shang Gou continuous bend stuck close to 40 minutes. During the three times, the husband asked for the police to release him, but the other person was so bad, he said, "all the people in the car behind me are the leaders of pinglu county, and when the leaders are gone..." Is it important for people, especially pregnant women and foetus, to lead a few minutes later? (Beijing news)
On the same day, pinglu police responded by saying that due to the restriction of local activities, the pregnant woman was stopped and apologized to the party. Local police admitted in the announcement "in service work has some negligence and inadequate", but at a pen and self defense, said that "parking lot is difficult to meet demand" "orderly parking vehicles on the road" "one-way", they belong to "reasonable traffic" at the time of disposal, said "the police at the scene of orderly direction, the net friend millet the vehicle for normal passing".
Despite the local police's prompt apology, the news is sure to make it look like a subtraction. In fact, most people are not very opposed to the traffic control system. Who has a very sick man, who needs to be taken to hospital for rescue; A fire broke out somewhere, and a fire brigade was needed to put out the fire. Innocent people were kidnapped by criminal suspects at the theater, and they needed snipers to rush to the rescue. A large earthquake in one place needs to be delivered on a starry night - including, but not limited to, the above four cases, where traffic control can be temporarily enforced. But there is no doubt that leading cadre travel is not an example - unless he is sitting in a fire engine to put out a fire.
Unfortunately, in many cases, traffic control is not a special need for emergencies, but rather the privilege of keeping up with each other. If there is no traffic police to enforce traffic control during an outing, it is obvious that the task is not urgent, cheap nfl hatsbut because you are not high enough. Some of the "roads" are not "road rights" for security, but a "special privilege" for some officials to set up a "platoon".
In some places, the reasons for this "privilege" are ironic. In November 2010, at the funeral of a town party secretary in lingwei county, anhui province, traffic control was even practiced, and traffic police were on duty on all roads passing through the road. A town party secretary in ancient times, I'm afraid not even seven product officer, but is one such town party secretary, can disturb the local police resources, for the town clerk's funeral practices and blocked traffic to give way. Can ordinary people enjoy such special treatment for "the practice of civilized transportation"?
In Europe and the United States, only presidents, prime ministers and other people of the first class have such special treatment. But in recent years, as the traffic pressure in major cities has increased, the presidents and prime ministers of some of these countries have also entered into the local customs, and the traffic control is not frequent.
As U.S. President barack Obama in 2010 in Los Angeles traffic control to cause local congestion for a long time, led to many people, its second year to Los Angeles when they didn't implement traffic control, the President's motorcade slowly crawling with ordinary cars on the highway; In the 2012 inauguration of French President francois hollande, nfl jerseys cheapthere were several red lights at the ceremony, and the team followed the traffic rules. In 2012, Russian President vladimir putin for traffic control bring inconvenience caused, and make decisions, and prime minister dmitry medvedev in Moscow as far as possible the use of the team, to reduce the number of traffic control, relieve congestion.
Experience in Britain can be learned: in Britain, only special official vehicles, such as police cars, fire engines and emergency vehicles, are given priority in accordance with the law. In addition, the installation and use of warning lights and sirens are not permitted in any government vehicle. The only exception is the national team, but even the national team does not have the traffic control methods that block or close the lane ahead of time.
Another obvious fact is that when the leadership of the team in front of the ordinary people who stuck on the road and out of fashion, the whole image of leading cadres and points - how much time you delay the somebody else, somebody else is in my heart to you how many points minus.
, according to the daily mirror reported on November 6, 2014, the Scottish women gillian Whitaker driving with his family in London to Edinburgh trunk highway, suddenly uterine contractions, child ready to be born. Two police officers, who were called to the police, immediately blocked off a highway to help her in labor.
In the future, we hope that more and more women will make way for pregnant women, cheap hatsmake way for life, and less "let the leaders go".

Wednesday, June 14, 2017

Old friends

There are always some old friends, although you do not contact them frequently, but they are regard you as good friend and care about you very much. cheap nfl hats, I was touched by their action sometimes. Some friends are setting a good example for me, they are brave enough to pursuit their ideal life style, although they was face some tricky situation , they conquer it and looking forward for a better life by hard working. Excellent, I am pound of them and always take a positive attitude towards life.

At the thought of the Dragon Boat holiday is approaching, I cannot help laughing even in my dream. We will be out of office for four days, due to not so many orders to handle recently for our company recently. Eventually, nfl jerseys cheapwe can have a good rest and gather together with our family & friends for this special days. It is said that the company are planning to adjust the structure and layoff and wage cut some employees. I have no idea the case is true or not.

Maybe I am getting old judge by appearance, but in my heart, sometimes I will be act like a little girl, even little things will make me happy. To be a simple person ,make me more thankful about the people who around me. They are giving support on me, big or small favor, my appreciation for them is beyond description.

One day, when I was Wechat vedio with my baby, she was crying at that moment. And she also watched the camera, cheap hatsshe wanted me to hold her in my arms. But I cannot make it at that moment. I am feeling that I was not a qualified mother. Maybe I should keep myself down and have a thorough consideration about the reality. The key point is that my mother helps me to take care of my baby. But my mother is getting old and is also in poor health. If I move back to hometown to find a suitable job, Cheap jerseysthings would be much better.